Okay, here is a situation. I am not one for grudges really, but there are some things that I remember every once and a while about the people in my life. Events that would be easier forgotten with an apology. Sometimes, we must understand that certain actions ARE the apology... Well, at least its all that person knows how to give at the current time. Maybe you'll get a better one (one that you consider "real") at a later date? Who knows yet?
Here is a similar but highly dramatisized scenario for you:
Say your friend murders you. Well, that's pretty depressing, a real road block. Personally, I believe that I would be furious, as I think most people would be. I mean, what a backstabbing move! In time, you learn (I have no idea how) that your life was about to get extremely miserable anyways and you would have ended up committing suicide to end your terrible, morbid life. Then, my question is, would you thank that person for killing you?
- Gee, that would be awful merciful and kind of them to do that for you (and I type that with intended sarcasm).
- No! He/she had no clue that it death could seem beneficial to you.
Mind you, this is not the most accerate scenario. First of all, you do not know the motive of the killing. Also, you may rather have lived anyways - depending on conditions.
In the actaul situation, something really good came from the "killing" and, I suppose, the friend thought it was the right thing to do. Some people just do not understand certain things. I do not agree with the actions taken. They caused horrible things, but ended with some amazing ones. Should that person get the credit for the good things, too? I believe not, because the good things that actually happened were not intended - only intended were the bad effects.
And that is the confusion of it.
Now, I must admit that I am tired. However, I do believe that I will leave this on here, even if it is badly written.
Goodnight.
-- Post From My iPhone
